Engagement Season Is Here: Soak It In, Then Start Wedding Planning with Intention
- Jean Rivers
- Dec 15
- 2 min read
Updated: Dec 16
Engagement season is officially upon us — a time filled with sparkling rings, joyful announcements, and that unmistakable feeling of “we’re really doing this.”
Before diving into spreadsheets, Pinterest boards, and venue tours, the most important first step is also the simplest: pause and enjoy the moment.
Let the congratulations roll in. Celebrate with family and friends. Take photos. Relive the proposal story as many times as it takes. This season only happens once, and it deserves to be savored.
Once the excitement settles (just a little), you can begin thinking about what comes next — thoughtfully, intentionally, and without overwhelm.
Start with the Big Picture
Before making any major decisions, it’s helpful to step back and look at the foundation of your wedding plans. A few early conversations can make the entire planning process smoother and more joyful.
1. Guest Count
Begin by discussing how many guests you envision celebrating with you. Is it an intimate gathering with your closest circle, or a large celebration bringing together extended family, friends, and communities? Your guest count will influence nearly every decision that follows — from venue options to overall investment
2. Wedding Investment & Contributions
Next, have an open and honest conversation about your wedding investment. Consider:
What feels comfortable for you and your fiancé
Whether family members are contributing
Any expectations or priorities tied to those contributions
Establishing clarity early allows you to plan with confidence and intention.
3. What Truly Matters
Finally — and most importantly — talk about what matters most to you. Ask yourselves:
What are the non-negotiables?
What traditions are important to honor?
What kind of experience do you want your guests to walk away remembering?
These priorities will guide your decisions and ensure your wedding feels meaningful, personal, and aligned with your values.
Consider Professional Guidance Early
If working with a wedding planner or coordinator fits within your overall investment, now is the ideal time to start that conversation.
Bringing in a professional early allows you to:
Avoid costly missteps
Receive guidance on realistic investment planning
Navigate family dynamics with care
Turn your vision into a cohesive, well-executed plan
At Blue Llama Events, we believe wedding planning should feel exciting, supported, and thoughtfully curated — not overwhelming.
Let’s Start the Journey Together
If you’re recently engaged and would love expert guidance as you begin planning, we invite you to schedule a consultation through our website. We would be honored to learn more about your story and help you take the next steps with clarity and ease.
Cheers to love, celebration, and a beautifully intentional engagement season.
As a luxury wedding planning and design studio serving Indianapolis, Chicago, and destination celebrations, we guide couples from engagement to “I do” with ease and intention.
Book a wedding planning consultation directly on our website to begin your planning journey with expert guidance.